Recently I was at a wedding for a former missionary companion and very good friend in Oakland, California. He wanted me to be one of his groomsmen. Since I had never had that opportunity before, I gladly said yes.
Oakland was very nice--although my uncle informed me that every city seems nice when all you see is the temple.
The lovely Oakland, CA Temple
And the great view of the bay area from the temple grounds.
My favorite part of the wedding--outside of catching up with my friend, seeing the temple, and enjoying a free meal at the reception--was the tuxedo I got to wear. The bride and groom have amazingly good taste in suits.
So that's a grey tux with a green vest and tie, with a white handkerchief and shiny white shoes. I looked pretty dang good. So good, in fact, that I decided to post a picture of me in the tux as my Facebook profile picture.
So yeah, I was feeling pretty cocky and good about myself. So much so that I wrote "I submit that few men have ever looked as good in a tux as I do right now." Humble? Not at that moment.
Well, the photo was up for maybe three hours before one of my friends pointed this out:
That. . . that was not the look I was going for.
"Seriously?! You couldn't have picked Daniel Craig?"
I apologize for not updating this blog as regularly as I should. I really wanted to get this up before Easter, but things have been a little nuts lately with finals last week, and then this week my body decided to go crazy with allergies, which left me a sniffling, eyeball-watering, mess for most of the time. Classes start again tomorrow, so hopefully things clear up by then.
This post is mainly directed at a man named John who is currently the only person cool enough to have left any comments on the post I wrote back in November titled "A Talk I Recently Gave on Baptism." John requested that I answer a couple of questions about the LDS church, which I am more than happy to do--especially since he asked so nicely.
So here is my response:
John,
In the brief conversation I've had with you, I mentioned that "We are unique among Christian churches as being the only one that claims to receive its doctrine by revelation from God, and then we use the Bible and other scripture to confirm what we believe."
In response to this, you asked: "What is the revelation of doctrine LDS has received from God?"
Before I get to that question, I have a quick side-note: I feel that one of the root causes of all the contention between Mormons and much of the Christian community is that both sides spend too much time talking about why they are different from each other and not enough time talking about the beliefs and goals they have in common. I came to this conclusion while serving a mission in Arkansas, Tennessee, and Mississippi. My companion and I would of run into people who had a built-in mistrust of Mormons, which when coupled with our different terminologies, would lead to some deep misunderstandings. I usually left these encounters with lots of negative energy and also feeling spiritually empty.
Me as a missionary in Senatobia, Mississippi
One of the biggest arguments that we ran into was that we taught a different Gospel--one in which we worked our way into Heaven without relying on Jesus. This is simply not true. While we do believe that "faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone," (James 2:17) we likewise believe that works without faith is just as dead. I soon came to realize that most churches believe the same thing, with some noteworthy exceptions.
So first of all, here are the basic steps of the Gospel that we believe:
We believe that having faith in the Lord Jesus Christ is absolutely necessary to salvation and that no one can enter the Kingdom of Heaven without it (Acts 16:31).
We believe that no unclean thing can dwell with God the Father, therefore, repentance from our sins is the second major step of the Gospel (Luke 13:3).
We believe that as a witness of our willingness to follow the Savior, and as a saving ordinance, baptism by immersion is required (John 3:5).
We believe that after baptism, the gift of the Holy Ghost is received by the laying on of hands (Acts 8: 14-20).
We believe that it is important to endure to the end--meaning that we continue to exercise faith in Jesus Christ and to strive to be more like him throughout our lives (Titus 3:8).
All of this is possible only because of the infinite and eternal sacrifice of Jesus Christ. He is the only way into Heaven (John 3:16, Isaiah 53:3-5).
This, in a super-condensed nutshell, is the Gospel. It is unchanging and cannot be added upon. Based on what you wrote, I think we have very similar ideas on what God requires of us--believe, repent, be baptized, and keep the commandments.
With Mormons also believing in modern-day prophets, temples, abstaining from alcohol, and new scripture; it can sometimes become easy to lose focus on what is at the center of all that we do. The Prophet Joseph Smith once declared that all things “which pertain to our religion are only appendages” to the Atonement of Jesus Christ.
Carl Bloch's Gethsemane
There are very few members of the church, if any, that do not understand how important the doctrine of Christ's sacrifice is. But like I said before, I think we sometimes spend too much time focusing on what sets us apart from everyone else. You mentioned that members of the Mormon church that you knew often appear to pedal their church rather than Christ. Regardless of whether that was intentional or not, it is truly unfortunate. I hope that everything we do and say would be a proper reflection of our beliefs and our testimonies of the living Savior.
This might lead you to ask why things like the Book of Mormon or a living Prophet are necessary if the basic steps of the Gospel never change. This is because people are imperfect, and if there is something in the scriptures that can be misunderstood, people will misunderstand it. That is the reason there are so many different churches on earth today. They all started with someone saying something along the lines of "I think we're doing <blank> wrong," or "this is what the scriptures really meant."
The Book of Mormon adds another witness to the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Much like how the four different Gospels in the New Testament support each other, the Book of Mormon helps confirm what is written in the Bible.
For example, here is a passage out of the Book of Mormon that talks about Jesus Christ and his infinite and eternal sacrifice:
“Wherefore, redemption cometh in and through the Holy Messiah. …
“Behold, he offereth himself a sacrifice for sin, to answer the ends of the law, unto all those who have a broken heart and a contrite spirit; and unto none else can the ends of the law be answered.
“Wherefore, how great the importance to make these things known unto the inhabitants of the earth, that they may know that there is no flesh that can dwell in the presence of God, save it be through the merits, and mercy, and grace of the Holy Messiah, who layeth down his life according to the flesh, and taketh it again by the power of the Spirit, that he may bring to pass the resurrection of the dead, being the first that should rise.
“Wherefore, he is the firstfruits unto God, inasmuch as he shall make intercession for all the children of men; and they that believe in him shall be saved.”-2 Nephi 2:6-9
This is just one of many examples of the doctrine taught in the Book of Mormon.
The living prophet, on the other hand, helps keep the doctrine that has been set forth in the scriptures pure. His main calling is a teacher of the Gospel. He also gives us council that applies specifically to our day and age, and warns us of the consequences of sin.
Since it is the Easter season, I figure it would be appropriate to share this video produced by the LDS church. It shows one of our apostles, Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, sharing his thoughts about the death and resurrection of Christ:
I hope this answers your questions, John. I know it's not exactly scholarly writing, nor is this very comprehensive, but I think it at least answers your questions.
Sincerely,
-Jake
P.S. I love answering questions about the LDS church, so feel free to ask away. However, I will not answer any questions that have malicious intent, and I will delete any comments I deem to be negative or belittling of what I (or anyone else, for that matter) believe.
Recently, I found an old gem kept away in a box in my apartment:
That is a wallet size portrait of me as a senior in high school. <shudders> I'm not exactly sure what look I was going for here, but there are so many things I dislike about this photo--the dorky haircut, the goofy smile, the ill-fitting clothes. . . and most importantly--the fact that I look like I'm twelve! Because of a medical condition I have, my growth was stunted from eighth grade through high school graduation. I'll probably tell that whole story in a future post when I feel like it.
However, I did get older and age during my freshman year of college at BYU, and almost exactly two years later, this photo was taken:
This is my missionary picture, taken at the end of summer, 2008. I'm wearing slicker clothes and a less goofy smile, and I think I've graduated from looking like I'm twelve to looking like I'm maybe 13 and a half.
Anyway, I'm sharing these photos because of something that I've noticed over the years: Whenever I hear opinions about how I look from someone else, it usually involves the word 'cute'--my favorite adjective ever!
In case you couldn't tell, I typed that with sarcasm on my cute notebook computer on my desk with my cute purple mini-stapler on it while wearing cute clothes.
Now don't get me wrong here--I'm happy whenever someone offers any compliment. Ecstatic, even. I recognize that being called cute is not a bad thing. But I get this feeling that whenever a girl says "you're so cute!"--they aren't talking about the Matt Damon kind of cute:
Because I don't have those deep, baby-blue eyes that Mr. Damon does.
And I'm pretty sure they aren't even talking Justin Bieber cute:
He even looks cute when he's trying to look like a thug.
Because if I was Justin Bieber cute, then where are all the screaming girls following me everywhere? Nope, I got none of that. Dangit. Instead, I have this sinking feeling that they're thinking 'David-After-Dentist' cute. . .
Notice that there are no exclamation marks or pink hearts here.
Now maybe you're saying I'm being over-dramatic here and making a mountain out of a molehill, but let's look at this from a logical standpoint:
Exhibit A: Doing a Google image search for the word "cute."
I found a cornucopia of different pictures, but they definitely had a common theme. Can you tell what it is?
All together now: "Awwwww. . . . . "
Yeah, that is definitely NOT the look I'm going for.
Exhibit B: The definition of 'cute' at dictionary.com. –adjective
Okay, so never mind that this first definition uses the words "pretty," "child," or "little" in its definition. Let's focus on the word "dainty." I read the definition for that online, and this is what I got:
"Dainty lace handkerchief" is NOT the look I'm going for!
The second definition didn't help my case very much either:
That pretty much cemented my "David-After-Dentist" theory. Once again, notice the use of the words "pretty," "precious," and "child" in the definition. Then do a Google image search for those three words and see what you get.
I'll give you a hint: it's not Matt Damon.
*Quick disclaimer:: I am not fishing for compliments or having self-image issues, I'm just writing stuff that I think might be funny when I should be going to sleep or studying for finals.
Between now and next week, I have to do the following:
Final art project for VA 114, which involves creating three related works of art, which will take about six hours each to complete
Individual case report for MCOM 320, which my professor said I should plan on spending 8-11 hours working.
Build a website for ISYS 201, which I have no idea how to do.
Take my final finance test for BusM 301, which I need to get a near perfect score on in order to achieve the grade I'm looking for.
Finish the other project I'm working on in VA 114, which is a large ball-point pen drawing. I have no idea how much time that will take.
Go to a wedding for a friend in California (I leave Friday morning and get back Sunday night)
Catch up on my Book of Mormon in 100 days challenge. I need to finish in ten days, and I'm currently at 3 Nephi 19.
Eat, sleep, and breathe.
Needless to say, this is going to be a busy week, but I wanted to give y'all an update anyway. Since I won't be posting for a little while, here's a picture of something I made in MS paint:
